Why is it so difficult to make friends with lowly-educated people? Or is it people with just no mentality? I dont know why myself. Eh, its not like im trying to look down on them because im better off or what la, but seriously, they are just, not from the same world. Okay okay, they are humans too, with emotions like me, but say, they are just different from me (people with some education background). And by the way, im NOT REFERRING to all the lowly-educated people lar. Some of them are really nice, but some are just... well, lets see how ignoramus they can be.
I knew a girl from my National Service days. Which is, i only know her for 15 days. Lets call her Missy. In camp, i was pretty close to Missy, or can i just admit, im pretty CLOSE with everyone i know (that is if you have been my friend and know me). We have been through ups and downs in the camp, as in all those supernatural happenings, freaking bossy camp trainers, illnesses and hardcore training. We shared laughters, tears and scary moments together. Well, the whole Alpha girls that is. I cant single her out coz im pretty close with the others too. But she is close to me coz she cannot communicate well with other trainees due to communication barrier. Since im multilingual, i can communicate with the Chinese, Malays and Bumis, except Indians la, we speak BM too coz heck i dont know how to speak a word of Indian except pondeh, anji and so on... LOL So lets get back to Missy. She came out from camp for their holidays and she wants to meet up with me. So, i was to meet up with her and I suggested a day and place but then she couldnt go because she hasnt got any transportation. So okay la. I went with another friend as planned that day too. For her, maybe some other time then, but then she insisted on having a meet another day during their holidays, so me being a goody goody person and a good friend, i wouldnt ditch my friend just like that. I suggested other days when she has transport, but seemingly she isnt from Kuching, i guess its pretty tough on her also. So, she asked me to fetch her. I accepted la, coz fetching people is okay. But then, that is where all the headache begins. After fetching her, she asked me to drive to all those places in town that i personally would never go to, for example Kuching town and 3rd Mile area. There goes my petrol tank. I said, i couldnt go far coz my petrol was only half tank, but she said, "If finish, buy nia la". I was like wtf, i dont have money la. Petrol consumption for me is under my monthly allowance. And at RM2.70 a litre, i try not to travel around much except to University and back home due to tight financial problems. However, she daringly said "Ask your parents to pay la". I really went wtf, but Missy didnt know what it meant. Zzzz... I just kept quiet and shook my head. No point quarreling right? She wouldnt understand me anyways. Coz maybe in her eyes, im rich? WTF LAR... even rich kids have trouble getting money from their parents ok? Unless they are the only child to billionaire parents or what, but me being from quite a well-to-do family, i stick with my monthly allowance and nothing more. I personally HATE PEOPLE who thinks im rich. And then... Missy and I had our meal... well, if she has the manners or so, she would offer to pay for the bill, which i usually will decline if IM THE ONE who asked people out for a cuppa. However, she waited for me to pay for it man. Like soooooo wtf!!! Missy invited me out, and then i had to pay for the bill, and i had to come out with my own petrol. WTF. And whats worst, since i have never been to those areas in town, some fucktard scratch my car. OMG!!! And i didnt even dare tell my parents either. I managed to remove most of the scratch stains so they are not that visible to the naked eye. Haih, told my brother and Vince though. Crap. So yea, brought her around. Parking tickets - on me, food - on me, petrol - on me. What else lar??? Zzzz... its that how you treat someone when YOU ASKED THEM OUT? And giving me directions where to go some more. Damn, i was close to slapping her when she orders me around. But, I was just holding my patience lor. So we were talking and talking about how's life in the camp and such. Then, she was asking me about studying and such. For your info, she isnt studying anymore but working already. Her qualification is nothing close to mine. She didnt drop out from school, but was one of those lowly scored students (in simple words, stupid). Gah, im in no position to call her dumb. =.= So, I said i have to study and what what lar... since its the weekdays and she asked me out, has she ever though i might have classes? She didnt bother at all man. She was like, we should do this more often when im out from camp. Zzzz... more often? You pay larr... wtf la... i was like, see whether im free or not, coz got classes (trying to be the goody person here). Then she went, "Nevermind about your classes lar, just skip it then can go out and have fun. What is so nice to study anyways? Cannot earn money one. Try and work la. Earn enough money, then get married and have children. Thats what every girl wants right? Good husband and family. Money not important one. As long as enough to survive lor". In my mind, studying needs money to pay also la. Skipping classes means throwing money away also la. Zzzz... And wtf is with ALL THE ULU PEOPLE THINKING THAT MARRIAGE IS THE ONLY SOLUTION TO THEIR LIFE? Earning money is a necessity in this modern world la. Without money, YOU THINK I CAN BRING YOU OUT MEH? AND GOING OUT WITH YOU NEEDS MONEY ALSO LA!!! Shyt man. She doesnt understand we students at all. One outing = RM50. She thinks my money falls from the heavens is it? Go to hell la. I was so close to answering her back at times, but thank God, my brother called asking me whether i want to go and fetch my parents. I accepted gleefully. At least i got a damn good reason to get away from it. And telling Missy that, she was like so sad i had to go so soon... man, if another hour with her, next thing i have to pay for her shopping also is it? Im not a sugar daddy okay? Feck off. One thing i know im gonna do is, IM GONNA AVOID HER AT ALL COST. Making stupid excuses for not meeting her up. I mean, poor people usually blame the rich people for never understanding their pleas, but then, they themselves never understand us either. They take things for granted. So maybe thats why they made friends with me at first? Coz of what i have? Taking advantage of me is not friendship. Im taking a bow. Zzz... if friends like this exist, i wouldnt mind scraping them off my friends list. Its not worth cutting your lifespan for shyts like this. Lucky i didnt explode and scold her. Im not that type. Once is enough. Ive had it.
And to add more crap, i knew a few guys from camp too. And they are one heck of a persistent group of people. They want me to be their girlfriend, and one even proposed to me. WTF MAN... some of them, education is so-so, and some... CANT EVEN READ WELL. Speak to me using broken BM and Mandarin, SMS also in some alien SMS language that i dont understand. Zzzz... One guy, call him Dude. Dude is not from Kuching either. But at least he is from a big city (wont say where incase he might read this). Education level - after SPM. He is a nice person to talk to, coz he is the second person who KNOWS how to speak English at the camp. So yea, friends with him was okay at first. But not till i came out from camp. He become weird, persistent. Well, i told a white lie to EVERYONE in camp, saying i have a boyfriend already. And Dude didnt give a shyt whether im attached or not. He persistently asked me to be his gf. I said no, i dont know you well. He said, "Come with me to my home place after i finish NS. Marry me, i can make you happy. I dont care whether you love me or not. As long as i love you, that is all that matters. I dont care you like someone else. As long as i have you, im very happy. Please come with me. I can make you very happy, i promise you". And that moment, i burst. I called him crazy and ignored all his calls and SMSes. Shyt man. Totally freaked me out. =.= Gee... why so freakish one? So after Dude, another guy, call him Boy. Boy always call me and SMS me to the point i get so annoyed. After every meal, he will ask whether i have eaten my meal. Ask what am i doing now. Ask when can i meet him. Ask can i go out with him. Ask me whether i miss him. Ask him whether i like him. I MEAN WTF MAN!!! I NEVER REPLIED TO SOME OF HIS MSGS. Doesnt he get the fucking hint that i dont like him a bit? Zzzz... some guys just dont get the hint man!!! My boyfriend doesnt even ask me those questions all the time man. This guy is like a stalker. Shyt. That day, Boy called me and i asked Hou Kee to answer it for me. Haha, i thought that might get him off guard and leave me alone, but NOOOO, he still kept going on. Zzzz... And then... there came some more guys... GAH... I CAN GO ON TILL FOREVER MAN... annoyed the shit out of me. Whats with them not getting the hint that i dont like them? I am okay with them being friends, but whats with knowing them for 15 days and asking me to be their girlfriend? Marry them??? WTFUCK!!! Oh ya, i told them i had a boyfriend. And one guy, he replied, "i dont care whether you have a boyfriend. I dont mind being your spare. I dont mind waiting till you break up with your bf. If he doesnt treat you well, i will". And then, there is another species of guys that i despise. Those who says, "I regret getting together with my girlfriend. If i had known you sooner, i would surely asked you to be my girlfriend first. I want to break up with her and be with you, can?" OMG, SHAMELESS BUNCH OF BABOONS... are they just naive or stupid? You tell me. If dont like the girlfriend, why be together in the first place??? I seriously dont have ANY BIT OF RESPECT for this kind of people. Then there is the other kind who says, "You're really pretty lar, can be my gf or not?" Wtf la, people who look at the outer beauty is so... how to say, you cannot trust them at all. They go for your beauty and nothing else. Thats why i hate it when people say im pretty. I feel like walking off. Best thing is, pretend nothing happened and keep your silence. Coz......... IGNORANCE IS GOLDEN!!! Its the best way now. Zzzz
I better end this before i blab too much. So how do you people handle this kind of situation? Tell me whether i am overreacting or am i wise to do so.
I knew a girl from my National Service days. Which is, i only know her for 15 days. Lets call her Missy. In camp, i was pretty close to Missy, or can i just admit, im pretty CLOSE with everyone i know (that is if you have been my friend and know me). We have been through ups and downs in the camp, as in all those supernatural happenings, freaking bossy camp trainers, illnesses and hardcore training. We shared laughters, tears and scary moments together. Well, the whole Alpha girls that is. I cant single her out coz im pretty close with the others too. But she is close to me coz she cannot communicate well with other trainees due to communication barrier. Since im multilingual, i can communicate with the Chinese, Malays and Bumis, except Indians la, we speak BM too coz heck i dont know how to speak a word of Indian except pondeh, anji and so on... LOL So lets get back to Missy. She came out from camp for their holidays and she wants to meet up with me. So, i was to meet up with her and I suggested a day and place but then she couldnt go because she hasnt got any transportation. So okay la. I went with another friend as planned that day too. For her, maybe some other time then, but then she insisted on having a meet another day during their holidays, so me being a goody goody person and a good friend, i wouldnt ditch my friend just like that. I suggested other days when she has transport, but seemingly she isnt from Kuching, i guess its pretty tough on her also. So, she asked me to fetch her. I accepted la, coz fetching people is okay. But then, that is where all the headache begins. After fetching her, she asked me to drive to all those places in town that i personally would never go to, for example Kuching town and 3rd Mile area. There goes my petrol tank. I said, i couldnt go far coz my petrol was only half tank, but she said, "If finish, buy nia la". I was like wtf, i dont have money la. Petrol consumption for me is under my monthly allowance. And at RM2.70 a litre, i try not to travel around much except to University and back home due to tight financial problems. However, she daringly said "Ask your parents to pay la". I really went wtf, but Missy didnt know what it meant. Zzzz... I just kept quiet and shook my head. No point quarreling right? She wouldnt understand me anyways. Coz maybe in her eyes, im rich? WTF LAR... even rich kids have trouble getting money from their parents ok? Unless they are the only child to billionaire parents or what, but me being from quite a well-to-do family, i stick with my monthly allowance and nothing more. I personally HATE PEOPLE who thinks im rich. And then... Missy and I had our meal... well, if she has the manners or so, she would offer to pay for the bill, which i usually will decline if IM THE ONE who asked people out for a cuppa. However, she waited for me to pay for it man. Like soooooo wtf!!! Missy invited me out, and then i had to pay for the bill, and i had to come out with my own petrol. WTF. And whats worst, since i have never been to those areas in town, some fucktard scratch my car. OMG!!! And i didnt even dare tell my parents either. I managed to remove most of the scratch stains so they are not that visible to the naked eye. Haih, told my brother and Vince though. Crap. So yea, brought her around. Parking tickets - on me, food - on me, petrol - on me. What else lar??? Zzzz... its that how you treat someone when YOU ASKED THEM OUT? And giving me directions where to go some more. Damn, i was close to slapping her when she orders me around. But, I was just holding my patience lor. So we were talking and talking about how's life in the camp and such. Then, she was asking me about studying and such. For your info, she isnt studying anymore but working already. Her qualification is nothing close to mine. She didnt drop out from school, but was one of those lowly scored students (in simple words, stupid). Gah, im in no position to call her dumb. =.= So, I said i have to study and what what lar... since its the weekdays and she asked me out, has she ever though i might have classes? She didnt bother at all man. She was like, we should do this more often when im out from camp. Zzzz... more often? You pay larr... wtf la... i was like, see whether im free or not, coz got classes (trying to be the goody person here). Then she went, "Nevermind about your classes lar, just skip it then can go out and have fun. What is so nice to study anyways? Cannot earn money one. Try and work la. Earn enough money, then get married and have children. Thats what every girl wants right? Good husband and family. Money not important one. As long as enough to survive lor". In my mind, studying needs money to pay also la. Skipping classes means throwing money away also la. Zzzz... And wtf is with ALL THE ULU PEOPLE THINKING THAT MARRIAGE IS THE ONLY SOLUTION TO THEIR LIFE? Earning money is a necessity in this modern world la. Without money, YOU THINK I CAN BRING YOU OUT MEH? AND GOING OUT WITH YOU NEEDS MONEY ALSO LA!!! Shyt man. She doesnt understand we students at all. One outing = RM50. She thinks my money falls from the heavens is it? Go to hell la. I was so close to answering her back at times, but thank God, my brother called asking me whether i want to go and fetch my parents. I accepted gleefully. At least i got a damn good reason to get away from it. And telling Missy that, she was like so sad i had to go so soon... man, if another hour with her, next thing i have to pay for her shopping also is it? Im not a sugar daddy okay? Feck off. One thing i know im gonna do is, IM GONNA AVOID HER AT ALL COST. Making stupid excuses for not meeting her up. I mean, poor people usually blame the rich people for never understanding their pleas, but then, they themselves never understand us either. They take things for granted. So maybe thats why they made friends with me at first? Coz of what i have? Taking advantage of me is not friendship. Im taking a bow. Zzz... if friends like this exist, i wouldnt mind scraping them off my friends list. Its not worth cutting your lifespan for shyts like this. Lucky i didnt explode and scold her. Im not that type. Once is enough. Ive had it.
And to add more crap, i knew a few guys from camp too. And they are one heck of a persistent group of people. They want me to be their girlfriend, and one even proposed to me. WTF MAN... some of them, education is so-so, and some... CANT EVEN READ WELL. Speak to me using broken BM and Mandarin, SMS also in some alien SMS language that i dont understand. Zzzz... One guy, call him Dude. Dude is not from Kuching either. But at least he is from a big city (wont say where incase he might read this). Education level - after SPM. He is a nice person to talk to, coz he is the second person who KNOWS how to speak English at the camp. So yea, friends with him was okay at first. But not till i came out from camp. He become weird, persistent. Well, i told a white lie to EVERYONE in camp, saying i have a boyfriend already. And Dude didnt give a shyt whether im attached or not. He persistently asked me to be his gf. I said no, i dont know you well. He said, "Come with me to my home place after i finish NS. Marry me, i can make you happy. I dont care whether you love me or not. As long as i love you, that is all that matters. I dont care you like someone else. As long as i have you, im very happy. Please come with me. I can make you very happy, i promise you". And that moment, i burst. I called him crazy and ignored all his calls and SMSes. Shyt man. Totally freaked me out. =.= Gee... why so freakish one? So after Dude, another guy, call him Boy. Boy always call me and SMS me to the point i get so annoyed. After every meal, he will ask whether i have eaten my meal. Ask what am i doing now. Ask when can i meet him. Ask can i go out with him. Ask me whether i miss him. Ask him whether i like him. I MEAN WTF MAN!!! I NEVER REPLIED TO SOME OF HIS MSGS. Doesnt he get the fucking hint that i dont like him a bit? Zzzz... some guys just dont get the hint man!!! My boyfriend doesnt even ask me those questions all the time man. This guy is like a stalker. Shyt. That day, Boy called me and i asked Hou Kee to answer it for me. Haha, i thought that might get him off guard and leave me alone, but NOOOO, he still kept going on. Zzzz... And then... there came some more guys... GAH... I CAN GO ON TILL FOREVER MAN... annoyed the shit out of me. Whats with them not getting the hint that i dont like them? I am okay with them being friends, but whats with knowing them for 15 days and asking me to be their girlfriend? Marry them??? WTFUCK!!! Oh ya, i told them i had a boyfriend. And one guy, he replied, "i dont care whether you have a boyfriend. I dont mind being your spare. I dont mind waiting till you break up with your bf. If he doesnt treat you well, i will". And then, there is another species of guys that i despise. Those who says, "I regret getting together with my girlfriend. If i had known you sooner, i would surely asked you to be my girlfriend first. I want to break up with her and be with you, can?" OMG, SHAMELESS BUNCH OF BABOONS... are they just naive or stupid? You tell me. If dont like the girlfriend, why be together in the first place??? I seriously dont have ANY BIT OF RESPECT for this kind of people. Then there is the other kind who says, "You're really pretty lar, can be my gf or not?" Wtf la, people who look at the outer beauty is so... how to say, you cannot trust them at all. They go for your beauty and nothing else. Thats why i hate it when people say im pretty. I feel like walking off. Best thing is, pretend nothing happened and keep your silence. Coz......... IGNORANCE IS GOLDEN!!! Its the best way now. Zzzz
I better end this before i blab too much. So how do you people handle this kind of situation? Tell me whether i am overreacting or am i wise to do so.
10 comments:
My guess....you are over-reacting.
Oh well, if this keeps up, i think you'll get to meet more of these 'interesting' ppl in the future.
if by ignoring them, i am overreacting, then what should be done? Go on with their antics?
yeh, this people are easy to come by...
i totally understand how you feel.
this kinda people annoy me to the max and i wish not to be associated with them at all. once is surely enough for me.
yeah, i do agree with you that it is very difficult to mix with people who are more stupid. perhaps i shouldnt use to word stupid. maybe less educated would be more appropriate.
there is a possibility that they have very different upbringing and sees the world in a different way. i want to believe that we have very different mindset and it really frustrates me to deal with this kinda people.
no offense.
it is really difficult for me. they way they see things, to me, they are wrong. but they cant seem to understand if i tell them my opinions.
i dunno whats their prob !
its even difficult for me to explain this !
hope u're feeling better girl ;)
yeh phingy, i agree with you. Maybe their upbringing is just so different from the town folks. They seem to talk and think that life is so easy at times. I really do get annoyed too. =X
i do feel better now though, but those guys still keep bothering and i refuse to change my phone number la. Haiz...
thanks for dropping by... ^^
I agree with 3point8 here. Why don't you just tell them what you think, like tell her you have limited allowance and it is not alright if she expect you to pay for everything.
There's a big chance that she don't even know that how she's acting is wrong in the first place. If she can't accept you opinion, then that's her problem and You may avoid her peacefully and if she's lucky, someone else will talk to her about her actions in the future. otherwise, she'll never know and that's unfair to her anyway since maybe her parents or people around her never teach her that.
Like you said, different people have different upbringing, but it doesn't have anything to do with where they are from or their education. Perhaps you might learn this someday after meeting enough people from different background.
i did tell her im short of cash and she just asked me to ask my parents for it. so since its the first time i went out with her, i just kept my cool and hope there isnt a next time. i aint the type of person who will burst out in front of someone so easily unless they did touch on sensitive issues...
and yes im still new to this whole thing coz i aint got enough experience after being locked up at home for so long... thanks to upbringing...
hmm...
been reading your blog for a while & only this time i want 2 say something.lol.
in this world there are diff. types of character.so it's nt surprise some ppl act that way.neway it must be tough when your in that situation.lol.
all the best in handling this kind of things again in the near future.lol.
btw,u shudn't give out your hp no. to them(those freaky guys).
p.s: i'm going back kch soon.so i want 2 try the cakes that u bake.later i give my comments.lol. *wah i'm so shy.tell directly again.lol* btw gab told me your beer jelly taste like "..." .i don't know what he meant by that bt i'm curious 2 know the taste of it actually.lol.
[D] yala yala... i wont give them my hp number... but that time... coz 2 of the guys i memang know from Batu Lintang school ba... so know them from dulu. So tak salah bagi... but then, the guys there go take from them la... so thats how spread lor...
haha... i bake... err... OK SAJA LAH... lol... the beer jelly tastes very weird coz it is sweet but then alcoholic some more... so weird la...
heys yea u SHUD tell the guys wat u feel. lol.. u noe ur
"After every meal, he will ask whether i have eaten my meal. Ask what am i doing now. Ask when can i meet him. Ask can i go out with him. Ask me whether i miss him. Ask him whether i like him. I MEAN WTF MAN!!! I NEVER REPLIED TO SOME OF HIS MSGS. Doesnt he get the fucking hint that i dont like him a bit?"
Reminded me of myself last time. hmm.. never noe girls despise that. lol. anyways yea, just TELL THEM straight into their face saying u don like them. it works. I noe. XD
[jacky] haha... too bad i cant tell them straight in the face la... coz 1. they are in camp
2. even if they come outta camp, i wont meet them when they wanna meet me
so there... haha
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